The most important thing Wolf, is family. Nothing else matters.
The good news is (though I don't know the cancer) that if the will is there, and it's caught soon enough, you can live and thrive.
My mother is a triple survivor (former Union Carbide Chem Tech, so yeah, exposure to lots of stuff) and she is still here today. 63 years and counting.
I wish you and the family the best of luck and hope with this.
-Storm
- The second we cease to learn, is the second we cease to be -
- Caught in the Maelstorm / A grasp unknown / tap you heels 3 times / You'll want to be home - *S.T 2009*